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Friday, August 5, 2011

Love

do I have to love myself??

YES!
many people are uncomfortable with the idea of "loving themselves"...
at the same time, they expect their partners to love them!

we can't give anyone else something that we don't have...
we can never accept other people as they are until we accept ourselves as we are...
when we are mesmerized by our own faults, we look for the same faults in other people in the hope it will make us feel better...
and we find them...
but...we don't feel better....

while we concentrate on our own faults...
the world will keep punishing us...
and we will keep punishing ourselves...
we do it with ill health...
with poverty...
with loneliness...
as long as we don't like ourselves...
the world won't like us...
and then we blame the world....

Love Yourself.....

What does it mean to love myself??

loving yourself means forgiving yourself....
it means admitting that to this point you've lived life the best way you know how...
Stop seeing yourself guilty...
forget perfection and aim for improvement....

Forgive yourself for your own shortcomings...
and..
automatically you begin to let others off the hook for the same things...

people reflect back yo us what we are...
if we pay attention...
we are always getting messages...
showing us how we need to grow...
the issue is always with ourselves...

ok...motivasi untk rney...take a look...n take note ye...

gudnite...ratrisawat kah...

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